THE WISDOM OF HAPPINESS: Your Ultimate Guide to Life Skills Intelligence

Penulis

Dr. Damaruci, S.Sos., M.M.
Life Skill Intelligence Institute
Dr. Enkky Sasono Anas Wijaya. S.Sos. ST. MM
Universitas Airlangga Surabaya

Kata Kunci:

THE WISDOM OF HAPPINESS

Sinopsis

There is no way to happiness – happiness is the way.”
(Tidak ada jalan menuju kebahagiaan – kebahagiaan adalah jalannya) – Thich Nhat Hanh

Kebahagiaan adalah ilmu manajemen yang pembentukannya (disadari atau tidak disadari) melalui proses perancangan yang bertahap, sistemik dan holistik. Namun realitanya hanya sedikit sekali yang memahami proses perancangan kebahagiaan. Happiness Wisdom adalah rujukan membangun peradaban belajar yang membahagiakan dengan cara menguatkan kecerdasan hidup, karakter kepercayaan diri dan citra diri yang positif. Karena memang kebahagiaan yang kokoh berakar pada pemahaman diri yang jujur dan dalam. Kebahagiaan adalah kebijaksanaan yang dipraktikkan, bukan sekadar dimengerti.

 

“Happiness is not the absence of problems, it’s the ability to deal with them.”
(Kebahagiaan bukanlah ketiadaan masalah, tapi kemampuan untuk menghadapinya) – Steve Maraboli

 

Dengan memiliki The Wisdom of Happiness, seseorang tidak hanya memahami makna kebahagiaan yang sejati, tetapi juga mengembangkan kecerdasan dalam menjalani kehidupan melalui keterampilan hidup yang teruji. Inilah yang menjadikan The Wisdom of Happiness sebagai Your Ultimate Guide to Life Skills Intelligence—sebuah panduan menyeluruh untuk membentuk pribadi yang tangguh, produktif, bijaksana, dan tangguh dalam menghadapi dinamika hidup dengan sikap positif dan solutif.

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  • KATA PENGANTAR
  • KATA SAMBUTAN LSI INSTITUTE
  • DAFTAR ISI
  • PENDAHULUAN
  • BAB 1 SEMUA INGIN BAHAGIA
  • BAB 2 MEMPELAJARI KEBAHAGIAAN
  • BAB 3 MEMPELAJARI KEBIJAKSANAAN
  • BAB 4 THE WISDOM OF HAPPINESS
  • BAB 5 KEBAHAGIAAN ADALAH PILIHAN BIJAKSANA
  • BAB 6 GANGGUAN MENTAL KEBAHAGIAAN
  • BAB 7 ASESMEN HAPPINESS INDEKS
  • DAFTAR PUSTAKA
  • PROFILE & REKAM JEJAK TIM PENULIS

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Dr. Damaruci, S.Sos., M.M., Life Skill Intelligence Institute

Dr. Damaruci, S.Sos., M.M.

Damaruci founder dan CEO Life Skill Intelligence Institute adalah anak ketiga dari delapan bersaudara. Masa bersekolah SD hingga SMP pernah berjualan es mambo, menjadi kuli yang bekerja menurunkan batu bata dari ruang pembakaran, menggembala kambing, menjadi petani, menjadi pemetik dan pemarut kelapa untuk pembuatan minyak kelapa, dan pekerjaan-pekerjaan serabutan lainnya. Saat SMA, untuk membiayai sekolahnya, ia menjadi pedagang asongan, menerima jasa vermak celana panjang, beternak ayam dan lele, hingga buruh bangunan.

Alhamdulillah walau dengan penuh keterbatasan bisa melanjutkan kuliah di Jurusan Kriminologi FISIP UI. Untuk membiayai kuliahnya, Damaruci melakoni beberapa pekerjaan seperti menjadi tenaga interviewer dan pengolah data di berbagai lembaga penelitian baik di dalam maupun di luar kampus, juga menjadi penulis resensi buku di berbagai harian, dan membuka bisnis penyewaan VCD. Semua dilakukan untuk menggapai pendidikan tinggi yang dicita-citakan sejak kecil.

Setelah lulus kuliah, pekerjaan formal pertama adalah menjadi peserta Manajemen Trainee (MT) di sebuah perusahaan retail nasional ternama. Setelah mengikuti program MT selama satu tahun dan menjadi lulusan terbaik, jabatan pertama yang dipilih adalah menjadi Internal Audit Officer, Internal Audit Team Leader lalu Assistant Store Manager hingga menjadi Assistant Training Manager. Lalu pindah bekerja ke perusahaan retail asing asal Belanda sebagai Training Section Head. Kemudian pindah bekerja di grup perusahaan pembiayaan asal Jepang, hingga menjadi HR Development Division Head (jabatan General Manager) yang membawahi tiga departemen yaitu Recruitment & Selection, Career Development & Assesment, dan Policy and System Development.

Setelah itu Damaruci memutuskan untuk menjadi associate consultant and trainer dengan spesialisasi Organization Development & Talent Management di berbagai perusahaan konsultan dan training seperti Haygroup, People Prime Consulting Group, Duta Bangsa Training Centre, Q-One Consulting, dan DSS Consulting. Disamping itu Damaruci juga mendirikan PT Optimis Solusi Berdaya. Klien konsultasi terkait Organization Development & Talent Management yang pernah dilayani Damaruci diantaranya Pertamina EP (2012), Kideco Jaya Agung (2013) Pipit Group (2015), Kisel (2017), Agro Boga Utama (2018), PT Kawasan Industri Makassar (2018), LKPP (2018), KSO Surveyor Indonesia; Sucofindo (2019), Pertamina Holding (2020), KCIC (2021-2022), Hutama Karya Infrastuktur (2023), Dapen PLN (2023-2024), dan PT Usui International Indonesia (2023-2024).

Sambil membesarkan empat orang anak, Damaruci juga berhasil menyelesaikan studi jejang magister (S2) di MM Trisakti dan jenjang doktoral (S3) di Manajemen SDM UNJ. Kegiatan lain Damaruci saat ini adalah menjadi dosen dan asesor BNSP, menjadi ketua RT, menjadi ketua komite sekolah, menjadi anggota berbagai asosiasi, juga menjadi pengelola sejumlah kios sebagai pasif income.

Damaruci telah menulis beberapa judul buku yaitu “Memimpin dengan Filosofi Koki” , “Sukses dengan Filosofi Dongkrak” , “Leadership for Life” , “17 Kebodohan Koruptor” , “Life Skill Intelligence Smart and Synergic Way to Happiness” “Nyali dan Kepemimpinan” , “Salah Kaprah Memahami Percaya Diri” , “Menjadi Manager SDM Bernyali” , “Transformasi, Manajemen SDM di Era Digital” ,

Dr. Enkky Sasono Anas Wijaya. S.Sos. ST. MM, Universitas Airlangga Surabaya

Dr. Enkky Sasono Anas Wijaya. S.Sos. ST. MM

 Lahir dan menghabiskan masa remajanya di kota Pahlawan Surabaya, sosok yang lebih akrab dipanggil soni - nama panggilan semasa kecil -, merupakan anak terakhir dari 5 bersaudara, yang tumbuh dalam lingkungan sederhana. Kebahagiaan bersama Ayah tercinta yang hanya menemaninya sampai kelas 2 SMP, harus melanjutkan kehidupan bersama Ibunda yang berprofesi sebagai penjahit baju.

Rasa sedih ditinggal sang Ayah, tidak membawanya terlarut dalam  kesedihan, karena  harus  bergulat  menjalani realita  kehidupanserta kebahagiaan bersama keluarga dan teman remajanya semasa itu, secara perlahan menghilangkan kesedihan. Setelah usia dewasa - entah kapan persisnya, barulah menyadari hikmah dari kepergian almarhum Ayah yang terasa "lebih awal". Ada beribu hikmah untuk menghadirkan rasa syukur dan kebahagiaan dalam setiap peristiwa kehidupan. Perjalanan hijrah ke Jakarta sekitar tahun 1990, ketika usia beranjak dewasa, dengan sejuta harapan menyongsong masa depan yang lebih baik.

Mengawali perjalanan karir sebagai karyawan operasional di BUMN di saat masih kuliah semester akhir Universitas Airlangga, Surabaya. Beberapa posisi strategis pernah diembannya, baik pada holding maupun pada grup perusahaan. Operation & Finance Senior Advisor Marga Net One, Ltd, Bangladesh (2004-2007), Senior Manager SDM & Umum Regional Surabaya (2007-2009), General Manager Community Development Program (2010-2011), Vice President Development Center (2012-2015), Direktur Keuangan dan Operasi PT Ismawa Trimitra (2015-2017), Direktur Utama PT Jasa Marga Bali Tol (2018-2019), dan terakhir mengemban posisi Direktur Human Capital & Transformasi PT Jasa Marga (2020-2021).

Kecintaan pada dunia learning and people development sejak masa usia muda dan berlanjut saat kuliah, dan hingga saat ini, seolah tidak ada habisnya untuk diekplorasi, terlebih dengan kemajuan teknologi saat ini. Kegiatan training, diskusi, seminar, dan aktivitas pembelajaran lainnya, serasa berbagi kebahagiaan bersama orang lain.

Menjalani masa pensiun sebagai pengajar pada program pascasarjana Universitas Panca Bhakti-Pontianak, serta beberapa kali menjadi dosen praktisi dari berbagai Universitas Negeri dan Swasta, serta menjadi narasumber kegiatan pembelajaran lainnya.

Mengenal sosok pembelajar pak Damaruci saat menjalani perkuliahan program Doktor Ilmu Manajemen UNJ sejak tahun 2017, dan sampai saat ini masih menjalani berbagai aktivitas pembelajaran bersama beberapa praktisi lainnya.

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