SELF AWARENESS FIRST, THEN SELF CONFIDENCE: Self Confidence: The Foundation Of Life Skill Intelligence

Penulis

Dr. Damaruci, S.Sos., M.M.
Founder dan CEO Life Skill Intelligence Institute
Dr. Ir. Harry Wiyanto, MBA., MM
Dosen Tetap dan Wakil Ketua III Bidang Pemasaran Sekolah Tinggi Manajemen Labora

Kata Kunci:

SELF AWARENESS, SELF CONFIDENCE

Sinopsis

It always seems impossible until it’s done.” – Nelson Mandela

Kesadaran diri adalah fondasi utama dalam membangun kepercayaan diri yang kokoh. Tanpa memahami siapa diri kita, kekuatan dan kelemahan yang dimiliki, serta bagaimana kita bereaksi terhadap berbagai situasi, kepercayaan diri yang dibangun hanya akan rapuh dan mudah runtuh. Buku Self Awareness First, Then Self Confidence menekankan bahwa mengenali diri sendiri adalah langkah awal yang tak bisa dilewati, karena dari sanalah seseorang dapat mengembangkan keyakinan yang autentik dan bukan sekadar ilusi semu.

You must do the things you think you cannot do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

Buku ini mengajak pembaca untuk terlebih dahulu membangun kesadaran diri sebelum berupaya menjadi percaya diri, agar kepercayaan diri yang muncul bukan sekadar keberanian kosong, tetapi sebuah sikap yang terarah dan berbasis pada pemahaman diri yang matang. Dengan pendekatan ini, seseorang tidak hanya mampu menghadapi tantangan dengan lebih baik, tetapi juga dapat terus bertumbuh tanpa terjebak dalam ilusi kesempurnaan.

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  • KATA PENGATAR
  • KATA PENGANTAR LSI INSTITUTE
  • DAFTAR ISI
  • BAGIAN 1. SELF_AWARENESS FIRST, THEN SELF-CONFIDENCE
  • BAGIAN 2. SADAR SIKAP NEGATIF
  • BAGIAN 3. PERUSAK PERCAYA DIRI
  • BAGIAN 4. TIGA KATA TOKSIK PERCAYA DIRI
  • BAGIAN 5. KONSEKUENSI KETIDAKSADARAN
  • DAFTAR PUSTAKA
  • PROFIL PENULIS

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Biografi Penulis

Dr. Damaruci, S.Sos., M.M., Founder dan CEO Life Skill Intelligence Institute

Dr. Damaruci, S.Sos., M.M.

Damaruci founder dan CEO Life Skill Intelligence Institute adalah anak ketiga dari delapan bersaudara. Masa bersekolah SD hingga SMP pernah berjualan es mambo, menjadi kuli  yang bekerja menurunkan batu bata dari ruang pembakaran, menggembala kambing, menjadi petani, menjadi pemetik dan pemarut kelapa untuk pembuatan minyak kelapa, dan pekerjaan-pekerjaan serabutan lainnya. Saat SMA, untuk membiayai sekolahnya, ia menjadi pedagang asongan, menerima jasa vermak celana panjang, beternak ayam dan lele, hingga buruh bangunan.

Alhamdulillah walau dengan penuh keterbatasan bisa melanjutkan kuliah di Jurusan Kriminologi FISIP UI. Untuk membiayai kuliahnya, Damaruci melakoni beberapa pekerjaan seperti menjadi tenaga interviewer dan pengolah data di berbagai lembaga penelitian baik di dalam maupun di luar kampus, juga menjadi penulis resensi buku di berbagai harian, dan membuka bisnis penyewaan VCD. Semua dilakukan untuk menggapai pendidikan tinggi yang dicita-citakan sejak kecil.

Setelah lulus kuliah, pekerjaan formal pertama adalah menjadi peserta Manajemen Trainee (MT) di sebuah perusahaan retail nasional ternama. Setelah mengikuti program MT selama satu tahun dan menjadi lulusan terbaik, jabatan pertama yang dipilih adalah menjadi Internal Audit Officer, Internal Audit Team Leader lalu Assistant Store Manager hingga menjadi Assistant Training Manager. Lalu pindah bekerja ke perusahaan retail asing asal Belanda sebagai Training Section Head. Kemudian pindah bekerja di grup perusahaan pembiayaan asal Jepang, hingga menjadi HR Development Division Head (jabtaan General Manager) yang membawahi tiga departemen yaitu Recruitment & Selection, Career Development & Assesment, dan Policy and System Development.

Setelah itu Damaruci memutuskan untuk menjadi associate consultant and trainer dengan spesialisasi Organization Development & Talent Management di berbagai perusahaan konsultan dan training seperti Haygroup, People Prime Consulting Group, Duta Bangsa Training Centre, Q-One Consulting, dan DSS Consulting. Disamping itu Damaruci juga mendirikan PT Optimis Solusi Berdaya. Klien konsultasi terkait Organization Development & Talent Management yang pernah dilayani Damaruci diantaranya Pertamina EP (2012), Kideco Jaya Agung (2013) Pipit Group (2015), Kisel (2017), Agro Boga Utama (2018), PT Kawasan Industri Makassar (2018), LKPP (2018), KSO Surveyor Indonesia; Sucofindo (2019), Pertamina Holding (2020), KCIC (2021-2022), Hutama Karya Infrastuktur (2023), Dapen PLN (2023-2024), dan PT USUI International Indonesia (2023-2024).

Sambil membesarkan empat orang anak, Damaruci juga berhasil menyelesaikan studi jejang magister (S2) di MM Trisakti dan jenjang doktoral (S3) di Manajemen SDM UNJ. Kegiatan lain Damaruci saat ini adalah menjadi dosen dan asesor BNSP, menjadi ketua RT, menjadi ketua komite sekolah, menjadi anggota berbagai asosiasi, juga menjadi pengelola sejumlah kios sebagai pasif income.

Damaruci telah menulis beberapa judul buku yaitu “Memimpin dengan Filosofi Koki”, “Sukses dengan Filosofi Dongkrak”, “Leadership for Life”, “17 Kebodohan Koruptor”, “Life Skill Intelligence Smart and Synergic Way to Happiness” “Nyali dan Kepemimpinan”, “Salah Kaprah Memahami Percaya Diri”, “Menjadi Manager SDM Bernyali”, “Transformasi, Manajemen SDM di Era Digital”,

Dr. Ir. Harry Wiyanto, MBA., MM, Dosen Tetap dan Wakil Ketua III Bidang Pemasaran Sekolah Tinggi Manajemen Labora

Dr. Ir. Harry Wiyanto, MBA., MM

Harry Wiyanto lahir di Jakarta pada tahun 1965.  Penulis memperoleh gelar Sarjana Teknologi Pangan dan Gizi dari Fakultas Teknologi Pertanian, Institut Pertanian Bogor dengan predikat Sangat Memuaskan pada tahun 1987. 

Penulis selanjutnya mendapatkan gelar Master of Business Administration dari Institute of Business and Management Labora pada tahun 1992, Magister Manajemen dari Sekolah Tinggi Manajeman Labora pada tahun 1995, dan menyelesaikan Doktor di bidang  Ilmu Manajemen pada Universitas Negeri Jakarta sebagai lulusan terbaik pada tahun 2020.

Penulis mengabdikan diri sebagai Dosen Tetap dan Wakil Ketua III Bidang Pemasaran, Kemahasiswaan dan Kerjasama di Sekolah Tinggi Manajemen Labora.  Selain sebagai akademisi, penulis juga berpengalaman sebagai praktisi di bidang Pemasaran di beberapa perusahaan besar di Indonesia, dan aktif memberikan pelatihan-pelatihan di bidang Manajemen Sumber Daya Manusia, Pemasaran dan Penjualan.

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SELF AWARENESS FIRST, THEN SELF CONFIDENCE: Self Confidence: The Foundation Of Life Skill Intelligence

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21 April 2025

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SELF AWARENESS FIRST, THEN SELF CONFIDENCE: Self Confidence: The Foundation Of Life Skill Intelligence. (2025). Penerbit KBM Indonesia. https://librarypenerbitkbm.science/index.php/buku/catalog/book/119